wkearney99 wrote:
Heh, if you haven't already, plan to take the boat safety course WITH your wife. It's really helpful when both parties understand what boat safety is about. This hasn't inspired my wife to undertake docking, yet, but it did help get her to think ahead on docking and line handling.
But what's really helped has been her support in dealing with docking. Most of last year I *required* absolutely NO talking or distractions from anyone in the boat. Even with the in-laws aboard I had full support from her when I needed quiet. My explanation was simple, this is a pretty expensive boat that weighs fifteen thousand pounds, has 700 horsepower and even a simple scratch costs five hundred dollars to fix. Docking is not simple and WILL get expensive if I don't have complete cooperation from everyone on board. I smile when I say this, but they all really seemed to 'get the point' and shut their gobs long enough for me to get it into the slip.
This year I've gotten better at it and haven't needed 'complete' silence. Now I just kill the radio, let folks know "this may be a little tricky so give me a couple of minutes so I can really pay close attention to what I'm doing". Works great.
Thanks, I am taking the all day boating course on July 21. Would love to take my wife but I don't have one. I am afraid to tell the last wife that I have a boat for fear that she will try to take half for old times sake!