That's a tough one with the data you have...
As far as SS tearing up your gear-case, that's BS IMO because there is a plastic hub (flo torq?) that will disintegrate when you hit something. I've nailed a stump at 40 mph, took a chunk out of the drive, and destroyed the insert, but little damage to the prop, and no damage to the drive. SS also holds up much better when I go through gravel. My alum props wouldn't last a full season on my last boat. When I changed it to SS, never had any issues.
Before toying with props, I would take care of the motor... new plugs, wires, cap and rotor. Fuel filter, etc. All to make sure you are actually getting the best numbers.
If that's all been done already and your motor data is accurate (RPM, GPS speed too).....
If you are set on 4-blade, I recommend a 20 or 21. lower diameter will help to keep the RPMs up
If you would like to go 3 blade SS, I think a 21 would be your best bet. The blades are thinner, thus less drag. I assume 4600 RPM is your max?
If you would like to try a 5-blade, your data supports 21 (again, lower diameter prop).
Try plugging your data in to this Prop slip calc and see what you get...
http://www.go-fast.com/Prop_Slip_Calculator.htm
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Walt B
"Debt-Charged"Black '07 H210SS6.2L Bravo One turning a 21P HIFive
Wakeboard Tower with Perfect Pass Stargazer version
Missouri River; Kansas City, Mo.