Ken,
Look into lifeline batteries.
http://www.lifelinebatteries.com/I replaced the Interstate ones that came with mine 298. They looked like they were maintenance-free, but were not. I neglected to keep the electrolyte level full.
Lifeline are maintenance-free. They are AGM type. the website will describe advantages of this type vs others (flooded cell-cheaper batteries, gel). They are not cheap. But the first time you try to start your engines the following morning on the hook and not enough juice to start your engines, you wish you spent the money. Longer than average warranty and battery life.
You can get the same size battery for your engine battery and "hotel services" battery with Lifeline.
As far as where to connect the different charger connections. Just keep it the way it is now. The Charger should be able to change the charging current as the battery voltage increases, then keep it on a float charge when the charger senses. If your charger doesn't do this, suggest you get one that does. I changed my Guest to Charles Industries, also not cheap. But the quality of the charger can dictate the life of the battery - charging rate profile is important.
Joe