Thanks everyone for all your help. I spent the better part of the weekend trying to get this going. I replaced my charger and got a good charge on both batteries. It turned over and fired right up. Checked voltage coming out of alternator and it was 14.2V all good or so i thought. Was idling fine and i had fully charged batteries, hit the trim switch and voltage just dropped. From 13V to 11V.
Shut it down and check batteries, both showed 12.8V. Tried to start it but nothing no chirps nothing complete dead, as if no power at all. Checked all the fuses, they were OK. Tried again and it fired right up. Really confused now. Shut it down and no start again.But had my trusty 11 year old daughter to help me find the problem

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She asked to try and start it. She turns the key and i hear click click. Hey do that again.. Relay... There are two of them in front of the throttle body the one on the left was clicking. wiggle it and it fires right up. Look at voltage gauge and it barley reads 12V, wiggle it some more and it jumps up to 13V. Take it out and check the wiring underneath. They look burnt and in bad shape, the holder/plug that the relays go into is melted as well. Time to replace it..
Only problem, when looking at the VP web site that part is no longer available. Obsolete parts..
Bracket, Relay 3852210
Terminal 3852247
Terminal 3852246
Any thoughts on what to do? Yeah i could cut the wires and put new ends on them and plug the relays directly into it but that dosnt seem to safe, too high of a chance for a short, especially right in front of the throttle body .
What say the collective brain trust?