Update time:
Talked to the FW sales department at the factory in Cadillac, Michigan this morning. They advised that my boat was completed on May 1st. My brother's boat, which is identical except for maybe one or two options, was completed May 2nd-except for a part that was back-ordered. Factory was not able to tell me what that back-ordered part was, but they did say that it was back ordered to May 7th, then to May 9th, then to May 14th. So, that is what has caused the delays and the multiple ship dates given to us. Could be one of his optional parts causing the delay, or it could be that I got the last steering wheel, or something like that, before he did.
Both boats are now completed, wrapped, and have been "released for shipment." The problem now is that the time crunch for delivering boats before the holiday weekend has left them short on transport units. They have released both boats for shipment, but they do not know what day they will actually leave their factory. Could be tomorrow, could be this weekend, just depends on how soon they get a driver lined up.
The factory said that they would contact me to let me know when they physically leave, and that they will email me a copy of the paper confirmation when they do leave. They also told me not to be upset with the dealer, as this issue is completely out of their hands. They also said that they would be able to tell at that time whether our boats were the only boats on the load, whether there were multiple dealer stops, where the other stops would be, etc. so that we might have an idea as to whether Memorial Day Weekend is a realistic possibility.
According to the factory, the dealers just call the shipping department, get a ship date, say "OK, thanks", and leave it at that. It was nice to get some concrete answers/reasoning as to what the problem has been. Now, I'm off to give my brother a hard time and blame him for delaying the boating season.
Again, thanks to all for suggestions, comments, etc. Hopefully this thread will live on as a lesson to others out there in a similar situation and help explain delays in delivery dates.
I'll update when I have some definitive dates and, of course, with pictures of me smiling like a kid at Christmas or [insert name of alternate religious holiday here].
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Paul
2007 Four Winns Horizon 220Mercruiser 350 Mag MPI w/ Bravo III Drive
2004 Ford Explorer Limited (V8-AWD)
Pomme de Terre Lake (Southwest Missouri)