The rubber hoses from the engine, don't touch them. You need something like this:
http://search.defender.com/?expression=by+passWhat you are doing is saving 6 gal of A.F.(the pink stuff) by not letting in run into the water heater. Run the water tank dry or as much as you can. Add about 4 to 5 gals of AF, turn on your water pump, go to each sink and shower (I like starting with the head shower first, since it is the furthest). Now turn on one at a time the cold & than the hot until it turns pink.
On the hot water tank, open the drain, let all the water come out or what is left. When you install the by-pass, most of it will drain out. As peace of mind, I pour in about a pint of -100AF into the hot water inlet. Then blow air into it, (close the drain) so it drains out the outlet hose. I use -100, because it can be mixed 50/50 and still not freeze if the is any water left in the tank.
In the head, I clean the sump pump and add -100AF into that untill the pump turns on.
Just to add, I like leaving all the sinks open and removing the bypass. This lets out some of the AF so its not sitting in the pipes. Some boaters will blow the pipes out with air to remove it.